Topic Overview
What is healthy thinking?
Healthy thinking can teach you to know what thoughts of yours-both helpful and not helpful-affect problems or feelings that trouble you. With practice, you can learn to use accurate thoughts that encourage you instead of negative thoughts that discourage you.
If
you stop negative thoughts, you may be more able to care for yourself and
handle life's challenges. You will feel better. And you may be more able to
avoid or cope with
stress, anxiety, sleep problems, unwanted weight gain, or depression.
Healthy thinking also involves
calming your mind and body. You can use one or more techniques. These may
include meditation, yoga, muscle relaxation, or guided imagery.
Cognitive-behavioral therapy, also called CBT, is a therapy that is often used to help people think in a healthy way.
It focuses on thought (cognitive) and action (behavioral). Many people work with a therapist or a counselor to learn CBT. But you
also can practice healthy thinking on your own.
How does CBT help you think in a healthy way?
CBT
involves techniques that you can practice every day so that healthy thinking
comes naturally. For example: Maybe you're upset about a job review at work.
Your boss praised several things about your work. But you're feeling down
because she had one small criticism. You might even think, "I'm no good at my
job." or "She doesn't like me. I must be bad."
Focusing on only the
bad is an example of negative or distorted thinking. You can
teach yourself to watch for negative thinking. You can ask yourself how true or
helpful your thoughts were. "What did my boss say exactly?" "Were there
positive comments?" "Why do I focus only on one criticism?"
You
can learn to see that the harsh things you say to yourself may keep you from noticing the positive parts of your life
and work. With time and practice, you can learn to tell
yourself more accurate and helpful statements. You might say, "I've done a lot
of good work this year, and my boss noticed it. She thought there was one area
I can improve. So I'll think of some things I can do to get stronger in that
area."
CBT combines several ways to help you change how you
think:
- You learn to notice irrational thoughts about
yourself.
- You learn to stop the thoughts.
- You learn to
replace the negative thoughts with accurate thoughts.
- You can
learn to relax your mind and body. This can lower your stress.
- You
can learn to manage your time better. This also can lower your stress.
Although you can use CBT on your own, it's important to
talk to your doctor or a counselor if you have
symptoms of depression or feel that your mood is
getting worse.
How can you get started doing CBT on your own?
Learn to stop discouraging yourself with negative thoughts:
- Stop Negative Thoughts: Getting Started
Learn how to use healthy thinking to prevent or treat
some health problems:
- Weight Management: Stop Negative Thoughts
- Anxiety: Stop Negative Thoughts
- Depression: Stop Negative Thoughts
Learn how to lower your stress:
- Stress Management: Doing Progressive Muscle Relaxation
- Stress Management: Managing Your Time
- Stress Management: Reducing Stress by Being Assertive
- Stress Management: Breathing Exercises for Relaxation
- Stress Management: Doing Guided Imagery to Relax
- Stress Management: Doing Meditation
- Stress Management: Practicing Yoga to Relax
How can a counselor help with CBT? How do you find one?
If you work with a counselor or a therapist, he or she can
coach you to do CBT methods on your own.
There is no special
license to show that a counselor has trained in CBT. You need to ask about a
counselor's knowledge of CBT.
Try to find two or three counselors
who are licensed by your state. Ask your doctor and family or close friends if
they can recommend someone. Licensed counselors may have a doctorate (a Ph.D.)
in psychology or a master's degree in social work or counseling.
You can call the counselors for a brief phone interview. Ask them if they
have training in CBT and if they use it often.
Pick the counselor
you feel most comfortable with.
For more information,
see:
- Depression.
- Generalized Anxiety Disorder.
- Social Anxiety Disorder.
- Panic Attacks and Panic Disorder.
- Insomnia.
- Stress Management.
- Managing Job Stress.
- Weight Management.